10.23.2012

I have found

I have found a lot of things lately. Not things like items
but things in general that I've discovered
I guess a better post for this would be I've discovered a lot of things
I feel good. I feel accomplished. It took me awhile though
Oh well. Better luck next time?

I have found that it's okay to have different friends for different things
I used to not think this was okay. I used to consider it cheating
or even couples cheating
Seriously guys. I'm sure you all have found this too
You're just too afraid to admit it. And that's okay. I'll be the first
but I have learned (and am now admitting) that it's okay

There's certain friends (I have found) who I call for different things
I call certain friends for shopping
I text certain friends to vent
(you know who you are)
I Facebook certain friends for hanging out, when they Facebook me first
(you don't want to come off as a snob, rubbing it in someone else's face)
I call certain friends for running brief errands
I vacation dream of vacationing with certain friends

I have found- this is okay

While I can go to a concert with one friend, I may not want to with another
We may not have the same style of music. They may be calm, reserved, etc.
Same with crafting. I have found some people like crafting while others say they want to craft and they never do
Instead, I just see things on Facebook or Instagram, of their adorable project later
It's okay. No feelings hurt. Just don't tell me you want to do something with me ever again
Ha. I'm only joking

but seriously :)

I have found it's okay to have different friends for different things
and I'm okay with that
now :)

Trust me- I wouldn't ever want to put all my friends together in one vacation spot for a long period of time anyway.
Hello- That just screams chaos. Am I right or am I right?
Too many personalities. Just too many, I have found

I have found it's easier for me to have one or two close friends
(who I totally and completely trust 100% with every bit of information)
and then have other friends on the side, who I just do random things with
I have found it's easier to trust and it's less hard ache
I am still heartbroken when trust is broken with a friend. I'd rather avoid it
hence the different friends for different things
I like it and I have found to love you all for different things

1 comment:

  1. Amen :) It is definitely normal and okay to have friends that are different. I don't think I have ever been able to get all my friends to Vaca with. Yes chaos is a great word for it. Everyone is different and meshes with people in different ways. Its all a balancing act! I love ya!

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